Comments with regard to the last post
+wow…mmm ok first of all I m really happy that every one of u shared his/her
opinion, experience, or thought on this important topic…I guess I should allot more time 4 discussing the subject in my future posts….
Just to make things clear the type of dating that I talked about which I agree with meant to:
be serious not for fun
between adults and mature ppl who know what they are doing and know WHY they r dating
SO its customized to take both culture and religion into account….
I didn’t talk about dating in a night club
Or in a bar
Or a guy who threw his number when passing by a beautiful girl in a shopping mall!!!!!
+ I can list a zillion exp about marriages failed coz the couple knew nothing about each other !! and I can list a zillion exp about situations when the parents asked about the groom's reputation but ppl never know the other side of u ,,,their daughters were beaten and humiliated by the guy whose friends and relatives said he is decent!
In a nut shell thx 4 contributing and look forward to continuing this topic,,,unfortunately there will be no more posts…….i'll leave on vacation plus there is something worng with my laptop
:(((((((((((((...so good that i had the chance to write at least a reply 2 ur beautiful and interesting thoughts
Enjoy the summer…………
+ VERY Quick reply to:
adel: thx plz share with us ur dating stories
I need days just to reply to u man…first of all know that I respect ur opinion and appreciate your strong Iman and would like to get ur e-mail so I can write to u if u don’t mind..
…and feel free to comment on this blog .. some ppl might get convinced or have questions for u …anyhow why should u be surprised?
Having rebellious thought doesn’t mean that I don’t feel for my ppl any where in this world whether they are Arabs or not….
3anooda: give me a biiig hug ;)
…and feel free to comment on this blog .. some ppl might get convinced or have questions for u …anyhow why should u be surprised?
Having rebellious thought doesn’t mean that I don’t feel for my ppl any where in this world whether they are Arabs or not….
3anooda: give me a biiig hug ;)
Dozz: unfortunately I know ppl, most of the arab girls, who get married 4 "the heck of it" esp when the girl hits 25…sometime I don’t blame them as our culture never feel mercy 4 spinsters or divorced….ppl have creativity when it comes to torturing them mentally and emotionally!!!
Summer:no0thing is taboo in my dictionary but was busy with what is happening in Lebanon….so don’t be shocked to c more of this "taboo" topics esp about women's rights in this part of the world….welcome to the rebellious part of me ;)
babe_uae : dear I must say that u r so lucky (Mashallah) that u have met an open-minded local guy, so rarely 2 find such ppl, who doesn’t wait 4 his mamy and dady 2 choose his woman…usually wut local guys do is marrying at least 2 …1 local woman to save his social face in front of his ppl and rest (3) r of his choice!!!
The Rendezvous: Totally agree with u but like to know why things didn’t work with u so far ….would appreaciate if u could share with us some of ur stories and conclusions ;)
Haidar: Well said!
MISE mmm I donnu..i agree with u partially… its not religions that are double-standard but you men of course the majority not all of them..but with regard to religion we should either accept it as a system for our whole life or I duuno wut..but believe me religions never prohibit something for no reason!!
6 comments:
silentear and arablady
Please include me in ur discusions as I would really be interested in knowing and understanding more. im not religious per say yet i am multazima.
my email is moody_1@hotmail.com
Thanks for replying back.i was checking your blog for a word from you for a while now and finally you are back...good subject and still waiting for more controvesial subject from you.
"I’m with dating but with limits meaning that:
-Both should be mature enough to have a serious commitment and long term relationship that will/might end up with marriage.
-No sex before marriage ( kisses r ok though…lol)"
Sister, you still haven't given me the name of the scholar who allows this.
I need to know quite quickly because I would like to get very stoned this weekend and a fatwa which makes it halal would be cool.
Do you think $500 cash will be enough to pay him/her?
3nooood…….i will
Summer thx darling …will everything depends on the mood
Mr. Anonymous listen
The one who wrote the post is called Arab Lady who is neither a sheikh nor Imam….
This blog reflects my personal opinion and thoughts …if u need a fatwa u know where to go or who to approach
Oh, OK. So you know it's haram but you say it's OK anyway.
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